FCA Sunday Group Discussion: Bodily Autonomy in Intimate Relationships

The topic of bodily autonomy in romantic relationships is complex and nuanced, raising questions of power, intimacy and consent. Clear transgressions of bodily autonomy such as domestic violence are widely acknowledged and discussed (though arguably still not enough). However, more subtle microagressions and power disbalances often go unnoticed, yet can profoundly impact personal agency. This primarily affects non-male individuals in relationships with men.

This manifests in various ways, ranging from pressures linked to societal ideals, to challenges with navigating consent and setting/updating boundaries. Women and non-male individuals often face the expectations to 'act' feminine, through their appearance, behaviour and emotional labour. This can clash with identity, self-image and bodily autonomy. Furthermore, the notion of consent becomes somewhat blurred in (long-term) relationships - how clearly should consent be given? Does this evolve with time, along with the relationship? Where do responsibilities lie in ensuring mutual respect?

By looking into these questions, we would like to invite you to a discussion about the complexities of intimacy, bodily autonomy and self-image in the pursuit of more equitable relationships. 

For reference or inspiration: 

https://medium.com/@maevaeverywhere/the-day-i-learned-bodily-autonomy-wasnt-a-myth-f1a28e3b1d53 

https://medium.com/@soul-facts/the-role-of-gender-expectations-in-relationships-5d2cc74c10ab 

If you would like to join the discussion, please sign up here: https://forms.gle/QTXNcg6uBP4ttmfo9

Nieuwland is wheelchair-accessible but its toilets are not. The nearest wheelchair-accessible toilets are at the Wereldmusem (previously known as the Tropenmuseum.) If you have any other specific needs in order to be able to join this meeting, please let us know and we can discuss what is possible.

We are looking forward to seeing you!